i have no idea why people think demisexuals can’t have casual sex. you can form a strong emotional connection with someone and sleep with them without dating them.
I think this is a wording issue. I don’t regard friends with benefits as causal sex cuz of the emotional connection with them.
I’m probably using the word casual sex wrong.
well people define casual sex differently. for me, casual sex means sex w/o commitment. but i think people also define emotional connection differently too. haha. like i can have an emotional connection with someone i’ve known for 2 hours, enough to want to have sex with them. idk if i’m demisexual though, because i’ve read such different definitions of what that even means, but i think i am.
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This is how I experience sexual attraction too. I say things like “oh I would totally sleep with X”, but that’s really...
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see… See, for me the thing is…. well it gets...don’t actually enjoy sex. Like AT ALL....
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- Leon Hearing you say this means a lot. I think that’s...- most of the discussions of...
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genderbitch reblogged this from madgastronomer and added:
Huh. Yeah, I could see how that would make things more complicated and even possibly problematic.
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i-sauntered-vaguely-downwards reblogged this from genderbitch and added:
Okay thanks for that clarification yeah I totally get what your saying. I know I, as an asexual person, sometimes have...
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YES. Re-reblogging because this. Sexual attraction is an awesome thing. As long as you’re respectful (or consensually...
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Me too. The people I know who ID confidently as demisexual generally take long enough to develop the kind of connection...
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carvedpumpkin said:
I think it’s more like… they usually only feel sexual attraction after an emotional connection is formed. They may or may not still enjoy casual sex though, it’s just sexual /attraction/ that requires those circumstances.
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aphrehemmant said:
I identify as demisexual. But that doesn’t mean that if I *could* enjoy good sex with someone I’d just met I wouldn’t. Because I totally would, and the slut-shaming fucks could SUCK IT.
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