mermaid-vision replied to your post: i’m a waiter at a restaurant and we are told to call people sir or ma’am…i obviously do not want to gender people so what is the neutral variant of the super polite sir/ma’am?
One local waitress uses kitten. I use lovely. Dear, hun, stuff like that.i feel like this could have a, uh …wide range of possible responses from people based on how they perceive your gender, but yeah.
I get called sweetie and darling a lot as a “oh aren’t you cute” whiiiiicch annoys me lots.
